stages of bitterness

1. oversensitive to a verbal remark, action, or lack of action.
2. hurt feelings.
3. repulsive feeling toward a person at the thought or sight of him/her.
4. retaining wounds and frequently talking about them.
5. alienation of a person.
6. verbal slander against the person.
7. lack of obedience.
8. becoming like the one you despise.